a long time coming.

To Whom It May Concern,

Let me be clear: it is not my responsibility to pay everyone’s bills. I am not the bank, I am not a safety net, and I’m not here to rescue people every time they fall short — especially when it’s become a pattern.

I’m exhausted. Emotionally, mentally, and financially. I’ve stretched myself thin trying to help others, often at the expense of my own needs. And instead of appreciation, what I feel is taken for granted — like my support is expected, not valued.

It hurts to feel used. To be called on only when there’s a crisis, and forgotten when things are fine. That’s not a healthy relationship, and I won’t continue to enable it.

I have my own life, my own struggles, and my own responsibilities. From here on out, I’m choosing to protect my peace, my time, and my finances. If that sounds harsh, it’s only because I’ve been too soft for too long.

respectfully yours,

and bidding you, as always,

peace,

Bob